Understanding how someone truly feels about you can be challenging, especially when they’re not the most expressive person. However, their actions and subtle behaviors often reveal more than words ever could. This article investigates the various signs that may indicate someone’s genuine care and affection, helping you decode the often-hidden messages behind their behavior.
They Text You
According to the most recent data, says EarthWeb, “around 23 billion to 27 billion texts are sent per day all over the world.” A person who takes the time out of their day to text you is showing that they care, even if they don’t say so outright.
They Are Engaged When Conversing
Just talking to someone is different from engaging in and taking an active role in a conversation. Someone who really cares about you will show they are interested in the things you say and will not quickly change the conversation to something that interests them.
They Accept You
Psych Central admits that “acceptance contributes to healthier relationships.” When someone accepts you for who you are and doesn’t expect you to be perfect, they show that they care about you and your friendship. This kind of person shows unconditional love by not trying to change you.
They Take Care of You
A person who cares about you will look after you when you are not feeling well. They will make sure you have everything you need and check in on you regularly. This kind of person is there for you through the good times and the bad.
They Respect Boundaries
You can tell if someone really cares about you when you analyze how they react to your boundaries. If they do not try to pry information out of you about things you would rather not disclose, they show they are your true friend and respect your privacy.
They Include You
A person who includes you in their future plans is showing that they care about you. When they talk about the things you could do together and make concrete arrangements to fulfill those plans, they are showing that you are an important person in their lives.
They Know A Lot About You
Someone who knows a lot about you, such as the things you like and dislike, is showing that they care about you. Their knowledge of personal details about you shows that they are paying attention when you speak and that they are retaining the information they learn about your personality.
They Support You
A person who cares deeply about you will support you and the decisions that you make. They will be positive about your life choices and will be happy for you when you succeed. They are actively interested in your progress and ask you about your accomplishments.
They Comfort You
We all need comfort when going through difficult times. A person who cares about you will be there for you when you need comfort. They will provide a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or just simply be present when you need them the most.
They Spend Time With You
If a person spends time with you regularly, you can tell that they care about you. If they enjoy spending leisure time with you and go out of their way to see you, you know that they care, even if they don’t say it vocally.
They Respect You
A person who respects your boundaries shows that they care about you. This person knows what you like and what you don’t. They are also aware of what you will and will not do, and they will never try to coerce you into doing something that would go against your values.
They Understand Your Emotions
Even if a person is not good at expressing their own emotions, this doesn’t mean that they cannot understand yours. A person who tries to understand your emotions and is empathetic toward you cares about you. They might not express their emotions, but they care about yours.
They Motivate You
Someone who cares about you will motivate you to do the things they know are good for you. They encourage you to stay on track with your goals, even when your zeal for them diminishes. This kind of person will always be proud of you.
They Ask Questions
Communications coach Sophia H. says on LinkedIn that “asking questions is a great soft skill because it shows empathy and understanding.” A person who asks questions while you are speaking shows they are interested in your opinion and cares about what you have to say.
They Listen to You
The listening statistics from WordsRated show that “45% of a person’s time awake is engaged in some kind of listening, which amounts to around 7.58 hours per day.” If someone spends a lot of their time listening to you, it’s because they really care about you.
They Call You
“Across the world, we make a huge 13.5 billion phone calls every day,” which is the equivalent of 4.9 trillion phone calls every year, says SellCell. A person who calls you on the phone to talk to you when they cannot be with you in person cares about you and what’s happening in your life.
They Defend You
When others speak badly about you, a person who cares deeply about you will defend your reputation, even if that makes them unpopular with others. This person will not take a back seat while others gossip about you; rather, they will be quick to put others in their place.
They Prioritize Your Happiness
A person who deeply cares about you will put your happiness above their own. They will go out of their way to do things that will make you happy. They make sacrifices for you and are glad to do so, not expecting anything in return.
They Are Honest With You
You can tell that someone really cares about you when they are honest with you. This kind of person doesn’t just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, they will be frank with you, even when being honest leads to a difficult conversation.