Over the past few decades, digital advancements and a greater focus on health and well-being have significantly shifted social norms. This can be really confusing because what were once commonplace behaviors are now seen as rude or inappropriate in today’s “woke” society. So, here are 17 actions that used to be normal but are now considered impolite.
Ignoring the Importance of Work-Life Balance
According to Forbes, “Work-life balance is an important aspect of a healthy work environment. Maintaining work-life balance helps reduce stress and helps prevent burnout in the workplace.” This marks a shift from the previously glorified culture of overworking and reflects changing attitudes toward mental health. We certainly know which way we prefer it.
Smoking in Public Spaces
Once commonplace, smoking in public places has become more and more restricted due to health concerns. This has led to a change in public attitudes, and smoking indoors is now often deemed rude. The change reflects a greater emphasis on public health and the acknowledgment of the impact of secondhand smoke.
Making Plans Over the Phone Without Confirming Via Text or Email
With the rise of digital communications, society has come to expect written confirmations, which help ensure clarity. While phone conversations still have their place, the lack of documentation they offer has led to a preference for digital trails that offer clear, time-stamped details.
Expecting Immediate Responses to Non-Urgent Communications
The digital age has accelerated response time expectations, but there is a growing recognition of the need for boundaries. The BBC says, “People still communicate in different ways; some are constantly attached to their phones, while others want to disengage from them for chunks of time. But tensions over reply times may also come down to social norms—or the lack thereof.”
Not Respecting Digital Privacy
While an initial novelty around digital connectivity led to oversharing, people are now concerned with their data security and online boundaries. It is therefore important to respect individuals’ data and information in digital communication and social media.
Dropping by Someone’s House Unannounced
Social norms have evolved, and the widespread availability of digital communication has led to a preference for scheduled and agreed-upon visits rather than a culture of open-door hospitality. This helps to respect individuals’ boundaries when it comes to time and personal space.
Sending Letters or Invites Without Electronic Follow-Up
Paper does still have its place for formal letters or invitations, but the widespread use of digital communication has created an expectation for follow-ups via email or messaging. This is to ensure clarity, immediate responses, and higher engagement with the communication.
Using Gendered Language in Professional Settings
According to the United Nations, “Using gender-inclusive language means speaking and writing in a way that does not discriminate against a particular sex, social gender, or gender identity, and does not perpetuate gender stereotypes.” In a workplace, this can help recognize and respect the diverse gender identities of employees, customers, and other stakeholders.
Not Using Environmentally Friendly Alternatives
With a societal shift toward greater environmental awareness, it is now less socially acceptable to use non-eco-friendly products and practices unnecessarily. Using environmentally harmful products can now be perceived as a disregard for community health and future generations.
Overusing Natural Resources Without Consideration
Greater awareness of finite resources and environmental impact has led to a cultural shift where conservation and sustainability are considerably more valued. While excessive water usage or energy waste might have been normal in the past, these practices are now scrutinized for their impact on the planet.
Not Adapting to Local Customs When Traveling
With access to global travel easier than ever and global social media allowing space for the sharing of traditions and cultural norms, society now places greater importance on cultural sensitivity. Travelers are keen to respect and adapt to local norms and practices as a way to demonstrate their mutual respect for one another.
Not Considering Food Allergies or Dietary Preferences When Hosting
With a rise in awareness of dietary restrictions and allergies, it is more important than ever to inquire about and accommodate your guests’ dietary needs. According to Healthline, “While some restrictions are meant to prevent life-threatening events, others speak to your guest’s personal and moral beliefs. Either way, they’re equally important.”
Relying Solely on Print Media for Information Sharing
Outdated and less effective, print media has been left behind by the digital revolution. Offering broader access, real-time updates, and opportunities for interaction, digital media channels have set new standards for information sharing and consumption.
Not Providing Accessibility Options in Public or Digital Spaces
With a wider understanding of physical and hidden disabilities, there is a much bigger emphasis on inclusivity and accessibility. Ulster University says, “Accessibility is about removing barriers, enabling users to engage and participate in everyday activities.” This can include physical and digital spaces.
Using Cash Without Considering Digital Payment Options
The rise of digital transactions has set new expectations for convenience, security, and speed when it comes to paying for goods and services. While cash is still a valid form of payment, it is often seen as out of touch with modern preferences, which favor security and convenience.
Not Fact-Checking Information Before Sharing
The digital age has led to the widespread sharing of information and opinions without necessarily checking the facts. Not verifying information can contribute to misinformation, undermine credibility, and have real-world consequences, so it is important to ensure you are correct before sharing information.
Ignoring the Impact of One’s Actions on Community Well-being
A cultural shift toward valuing community welfare and experiences has led to a growing recognition that individual actions matter. Society places importance on being considerate of your day-to-day personal and professional actions to ensure they don’t negatively affect others.