Language is constantly changing, and therefore, phrases that were once popular can soon feel outdated. The most recent example of this is how many expressions that millennials say all the time, despite younger and older generations feeling like they’re outdated or just don’t fit in anymore. To show you what we mean, here are 18 millennial phrases that need to go away, fast.
Bae
As MojiEdit defines it, akin to “babe” or “baby,” the word “bae” is commonly used to refer to a romantic partner, and can also stand for “before anyone else.” Recently, it’s been used for everything from people to food or places. Its over-usage has diluted its meaning, and more people are using more personalized references to a partner.
That’s Cringe
“That’s cringe” is a quick dismissal of something considered embarrassing or awkward. While subjective, it risks shutting down empathy and constructive dialogue. Encouraging a nuanced understanding of different perspectives and promoting constructive criticism can help foster a more empathetic and inclusive communication culture.
FOMO
This stands for “fear of missing out.” It describes anxiety related to missing out on social events or experiences. This causes unnecessary stress and constant pressure to be involved in everything. Encouraging mindfulness and being present can help combat FOMO and have been shown to increase mental health.
I Can’t Even
“I can’t even” is a phrase often used by millennials to express frustration or disbelief. People sometimes use the phrase to avoid tough conversations, which can be dismissive. Finding alternative ways to convey one’s emotions can be a better way to communicate.
Adulting
As we grow up, we have certain ideas of how an adult should be in terms of behavior and achievements in their career or personal life. Embracing adulthood and acknowledging its challenges without expectations can foster personal growth. We all have personal journeys, and there are no correct paths.
Triggered
“Triggered” is frequently misused to dismiss valid emotional reactions as irrational or oversensitive. This trivialization minimizes the struggles of individuals with trauma or mental health issues. Be empathetic and understanding rather than dismissing someone’s emotions to provide a supportive environment.
Basic
Society has become more accepting of each other’s differences, and everyone’s individuality is encouraged and celebrated. The dictionary defines “basic” as a term used in slang to describe someone or something as unoriginal, mainstream, or predictable. This was superficial, and most of the judgment was based on certain stereotypes.
Lit
“Lit” is slang used to describe something exciting, enjoyable, or impressive. Its popularity has led to its frequent and often inappropriate usage, diluting its impact. Using other statements such as “fun” and “entertaining” increases the vocabulary and provides more distinctive descriptions.
Throwing Shade
While playful banter can be harmless, habitual shade-throwing fosters negativity and undermines healthy communication. Instead, participating in a culture of direct, respectful feedback encourages growth and understanding. Conversations with constructive criticism without passive-aggressive remarks can yield better results and be less offensive.
Goals
“Goals” refers to an admiration or aspiration toward someone or something. People with successful careers or relationships are looked at as inspiration. This sometimes undermines the effort and dedication required to attain these “goals.” It also idealizes people, which creates pressure and unrealistic expectations.
Woke
“Woke” has lost its original meaning of social awareness and evolved into a performative term. Its overuse dilutes genuine activism, reducing important conversations to mere trends. Genuine activism requires more than buzzwords; it demands continuous learning, empathy, and tangible action.
Snack
Referring to someone as a “snack” objectifies and reduces them to their physical appearance. Using such terminology perpetuates shallow judgments and fails to appreciate individuals beyond their looks. Emphasizing character, intelligence, and talents over superficial attributes promotes genuine connections and mutual respect.
Mood
An increase in mental health awareness has promoted self-acceptance. The phrase “mood” was used to express agreement or resonance with a particular sentiment or situation. This is less frequently used as more individuals feel more inclined to be authentic and express how they really feel.
Sorry, Not Sorry
“Sorry, not sorry” embodies insincerity and lacks accountability. It allows individuals to excuse their behavior without acknowledging its impact on others. Genuinely apologize and acknowledge your mistake, and show remorse and sincerity to the offended party. Embracing humility and accountability fosters healthier relationships and personal growth.
On Fleek
“On fleek” has become outdated slang that risks sounding inauthentic or forced. Its overuse in marketing and social media dilutes its impact and authenticity. Embracing creativity and originality over trendy catchphrases allows for more genuine expressions of style and personality.
Slay
According to Later.com, the word “slay” has a rich and meaningful history. Black and brown queer communities used it as a form of expression in response to the oppression they faced. Its overuse in mainstream culture may be a form of appropriation.
Extra
“Extra” has evolved into a ubiquitous term used to describe someone or something as exaggerated or over-the-top. It was used humorously, but now it is often used as a critique for individuals viewed as too much and conforming to the “norm.”
Humblebrag
The art of ‘humblebragging’ is often seen as disingenuous. Sometimes it is used to conceal arrogance or people showing off. When people use their achievements to put others down, it can be disheartening. It is okay to be proud, but genuine humility is encouraged.